有没有试过迟到?为了什么而迟到呢?
我有个朋友堪称我见过最厉害的迟到大王。他的人还很友善,也经常跟你称兄道弟,又喜欢讲义气。可是问题就是,他可以让你等他一两个小时,然后还嬉皮笑脸的道歉,然后一定又是有头头是道的理由。最糟的是,是每一次都惯性迟到。
Have you ever been late? why are you late?
I have a friend who is the most geng chao late king. His character is quite friendly, and always want to be your buddy and whatever hood. But the problem is he can let you wait for him for one or two hour, and still can apologize to you smiley, and follow by a very "valid" reason. The worst is, this happen everytime.
我是很生气,可是又无可奈何。我甚至也用同样的招数对付他,可是还是一样。我也打回原形,因为我根本就不能容忍迟到,也很难让自己迟到。
I am indeed angry but nothing more I can do to change a person. I even use back the same method on him, but thing didn't get well. End up, I still the same, I cannot tolerate late and also cannot tolerate myself to be late too.
我的想法是,如果你可以迟到,就代表你跟本就不重视这个约会,也不尊敬这个人。就好象男女朋友一样,刚开始是每次都早到一两个小时,然后是准时到。如果这个男的开始对你没什么意思了,就会迟到。。。最后就是,“我不知几时有空,再看一下。” 这样自私的男人,我想结局通常都是分手吧。
所以,迟到的事可千万不能纵容!!!
If you can be late, that means you actually don't care about the date, and also not respect the person. It is the same theory applied to couple. Initially the guy will always be early one or two hour, and then is to arrive punctual. If the guy is starting lose attention to you, then he will be late... At last he will say, "I don't know when I will free, see how la." Such a selfish guy, I think end up this couple will break-up.
Therefore, don't ever tolerate the late!!!
4 comments:
Jeff, it depends how much you value his friendship and how close you are with him.
If he is very close, give him a piece of your mind!
If he is not close, then go find someone who knows how to respect people and their time.
Everyone has the same 24hours a day. Why should you waste your time to suit his?
Give it a thought and make your decision.
I am always on time and all my friends have the same habit. We respect those who respect us!
Ask him to read my comment here!
Now, I also "angee" hor!
me used to it dy. My friend also like tat wan. Me now waiting for them for dinner since 7pm. Next time lie to him 1 hour earlier. Then u no need wait so long.
But i dont agree with u saying tat guy always wait for girl. Coz as a girl i always wait for those guy friend me mine lor. I very punctual wan!
Are you refering to the same guy I have in mind? It sounded very much like him.
Next time give him a call before you leave for the appointment or an hour before the agreed time.
Liongirl, I think friendship wise is ok just that I sometimes have no choice and need to meet him. The time we agree is already very late but still the same thing happened.
Faith, is very good you always punctual. Guy will reach the place 1 hour early to wait for the girl, this is what i mean. did i say girl not punctual?? but hor, when this guy start to lose interest on the girl then it happened that the girl will always wait for the guy.
wolf, haha not sure you refer to the same guy or not. ya... he may tell me "reaching" but end up is 2 hour later. so?? won't you get angry?
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