最近二三事 My recent life.

上个星期六偕同妻子参加了一个朋友的婚礼,特地回去了柔佛一趟。也顺便带父母亲去新山找我的二哥。晓玲的婚礼充满了幸福的感觉,也感觉到他们花了很多的心思。虽然她是我十多年前曾经喜欢的女生,可是如今看到她能找到幸福,我是挺感动的。以前的喜怒哀乐也不复存在,取而代之是喜悦祝福。
我也想到一个婚礼中最常被省略的是谁。。。就是新郎的女性朋友和新娘的男性朋友。我想这是不方便在台上说吧。。哈哈!所幸晓玲并没有在台下忘记我们。。。
我很愿意去朋友的婚礼。因为大家毕业也很久了,如果不借着这个机会,不是更难见面了吗?随着年龄增长,我觉得以前那样的友谊非常可贵,也的确要细心经营。以前以工作为重的藉口,我也不想再用了。没有什么比人与人之间的联系来的重要。。。我父亲也是这么教我。

I brought my wife and family to attend a good friend's wedding and purposely go back Johor. So that  I can also bring my parent to visit my brother. Lynn's wedding is full of happiness, and they indeed put a lot of effort to make it perfect. Although I like her so much in 10++ years ago, I felt very touch that she finally find her happiness. The "happy,angry,upset" last time is no longer existed, instead my heart is full of blessed.
It also come into my mind, who will be skipped most of the time in wedding? they are the groom's gf and bride's bf. I think this is because not convenient to thank them on the stage... haha! luckily Lynn not forget us when she came down the stage....
I so willing to attend friend's wedding nowadays. We graduate for so long and if we didn't take this opportunity to meet friend, when can we meet? The friendship built in the past is so valuable and it requires a gentle care. I no longer want to use WORK as an excuse to not meeting friend. There is nothing important than the bonding among human.... my father taught me so.

今天也很开心,因为困扰多天的工作难题,终于有了好的开始。狼,我做到了!黑得制HDS(广东音)并不可怕,怕得是自己失去了信心。希望明天老天不要给我“惊喜”,祈祷中。。。。
I also feel happy today because there is finally a bright light shine into the obstacle of my work. Wolf, I make it!! HDS (ha da zai, cantonese) is not scary anymore, just scare that I lost confidence. Hopefully the god won't give me anymore "surprise" tomorrow.... praying.............

老婆,我们的韩国之旅要来了。。。期待中。。。
Dear, our korea trip is coming soon.... exciting....

11 comments:

LION GIRL said...

Hmm, attending your ex's wedding huh? Good for you!
As far as I am concerned, I would not want to even bump into my ex, least attending his wedding or invite him to mine (if ever)! Haha!

FaiTh said...

nice,,,yea i agree that friends is important. must spent time with them.

faster come back off... we miss you!!!

Lonewolf said...

太好了!人事,工作,和亲人都三皆欢喜。。。祝福你好彩继续来。加油!

FaiTh said...

Go korea huh?? i wan korea charcoal!!! wahahhahaha

由子 said...

好感动!别忘了感谢你那通情达理的老婆大人哦!

Jeff Tan said...

lion, i dun have ex. my first gf is my wife now.
wolf, hopefully the luck come to all of us.
faith, how abt korea kimchi?
sis, ya. she is so understanding...有妻如此,夫复何求。。

FaiTh said...

jeff... I dont eat kimchi wan wor!!!! korean man can ar?

墨鱼 said...

字里行间可以感受到你的幸福,因为你有一颗感恩的心,祝福你。

LION GIRL said...

Oophs, Jeff, sorry I misunderstood what you wrote. Hope your wife did not read my comment! Hahaha!

Casendra said...

fuyooh...老婆,我们的韩国之旅要来了。。。lam sei....

Jeff Tan said...

faith, you really "se huo".. korean guy is very handsome.
墨鱼, thanks!!! :) I learnt from you.
Lion, i think she already read it... :)
cass, I can't compare to you la.. you went so many countries.

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