«論語》《學而》

子曰:"巧言令色,鮮矣仁!"

孔子說:"花言巧語,偽善面貌的人,仁德也不會多。"

Confucius said,"Person who has lot of sweet and boost talking, pretend to have virtues belief to please people , he won't have much Ren too."

傑狐曰。
孔子說仁,仁到底是什麼?一個人是不會產生仁的觀念的。二人以上才能產生仁,所謂仁者愛人,也有仁慈仁愛之意,也是人與人相處的一種道理。一個聰明的人未必懂如何愛人,一個懂愛的人也未必聰明。可是一個巧言令色的人,為何就很少仁德呢?當今有很多巧言令色的人,你和我也或多或少會這樣,可是我們也是愛人啊!道理何在?
當你真正懂得對一個人仁慈喜愛,你應該待之以誠,也應該示以真面目。如果你還是巧言令色的話就顯得別有居心,或者好像要掩蓋什麼不好的東西,所以仁也就不存在了。下次當你享受別人虛偽奉承時,請小心謹慎。他會在你落難時,一腳把你踢開!

Jeff said.
Confucius said Ren, what actually the meaning? Ren will never be thought when you are alone, it will only come when more than 2 persons existed. Ren is similar to love, also means kindness, it is a concept of how to handle the relationship among people. A smart guy doesn't mean he know how to love, a person who know how to love not necessary be smart. But why a hypocrite won't have much Ren with him? There are too many hypocrite in this world, sometimes we also pretend to be nice and talking sweet, but we still know how to love! What the reason behind?
When you really know the true way of loving, you will treat them sincerely and showing your true face. If you still want to pretend, it shows that you have other objectives or hide your bad things, therefore Ren is gone away.
Next time when you enjoying the sweet talk and pleasing, please be caution. He will kick you down when you having trouble!
Sent from my BlackBerry® Smartphone

4 comments:

LION GIRL said...

Jeff, as we grow older we learn to differentiate between a sincere person from a pretender although sometimes we still make mistakes in our evaluation.

No pretender is good enough to cover his or her small movements/ habit and it is from them we know if they meant what they say.

Hmmm, make sense??

四月 said...

最近都喜欢看论语?

Jeff Tan said...

LG, pretender is always hard to avoid coz we don't know. What confucius want to say is to becareful those always sweet talk and showing fake nice face.

四月,覺得慢慢咀嚼,很有意思。

pai said...

继续继续!
我有在听课!

Related Posts with Thumbnails

Saving The Seahorse Means Saving The Sea