論聽 Listen

我們都知道何謂聽,也會聽。也不過就是耳朵接收到了聲波,在腦子里產生了訊息。然而我們是真的在聽了嗎?

We all know what is listen and how to listen. It is just the sound wave received by ear and create information in our brain. But, do we really listen?

例如媽媽對孩子的勸告,孩子耳朵是聽到了。可是我們有時會說,孩子的心沒有聽到,依然故我。我們真的懂得聽嗎?

E.g. Mother is giving advise to child, child's ear listen the sound. Sometimes we will say that the child is not listening with heart and therefore the child behave the same way. Do we really know how to listen?

例如我們聽了一場演說,耳朵是聽到了,心也聽到了。可是每個人反應出來的也不同,每個人聽到的重點也不同,每個人記得的話也僅僅是片斷。我們真的聽的完整嗎?

E.g. We listen a seminar talk, our ear listened, our heart listened. But everyone react differently, everyone listen different point, everyone remember different words and sentences. Do we really listen completely?

若有幸聽佛陀講道,耳朵聽到了,心聽到了,也聽完整了。然而我們真的領悟和明白了佛陀要說的話嗎?我們以為聽完一切就沒差錯了,可惜還是每個人有自己的"我"在聽。這個"我"借助回憶和經驗來聽、來想、來做,終究還是每個人自己不斷複製"我"的經驗,不斷複製聽到這個就要反應這個,聽到那個就要反應那個。這算是聽到了佛陀在說嗎?特別是那些我們根本不知道的境界,這個"我"又要如何?

If one day I was so lucky to listen buddha, my ear listened, my heart listened, and listened completely. But do we really know what buddha talk?
We believe it won't go wrong if listen completely. However, we still use "ME" to listen. This "ME" uses the old memories and old experience to listen and keeps cloning "ME" experience.
"ME" will tell you to react this way when listen this, and react that way when listen that. However, do we really listen what buddha said? Especially those things we never know which told by buddha, what this "ME" can do for us?

聽,不僅僅是聽而已。而是開放、不批評、不辯護地聽到了說的那個人,裡面最深的意思。
Listen, is not just listen. With open heart, no criticize, no defense to listen the person who told, the deepest meaning.

注:別急著批評和找我的漏洞,這絕對不是我部落格的重點。靜一下,想一想自己,喜歡就留,不喜歡就丟,好嗎?我沒有針對任何人,也可以是針對任何人,聽到嗎?

Note: Don't quickly criticize and finding my wrong, this never a important thing in all my posts. Quiet your heart and think, keep it if you like and throw it if you don't like, ok? I didn't write blog for anyone, I also write blog for everyone, listen?

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2 comments:

AliVe said...

听是一门深奥学问。

LION GIRL said...

Totally agree with you! Thank you for sharing!

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