《论语》《学而》

子曰:"不患人之不知己,患不知人也。"

孔子说,"别人不了解我,我不急;我急的是自己不了解别人。"

Confucius said, "I do not worry others not understand me. I worry I am the one who not understand others."

杰狐说。
多少时候,我们一站出来就拼命地发表自己的高论?多少时候,我们很着急别人不知我们的想法?我们的心底生怕别人不给我们时间,生怕时间不给我们机会,生怕机会稍失,我们就失去了生命。可是我们成功了吗?以至于我们的世界有更和平吗?
别急,慢一点,多听一点,多观察一点。深刻的了解别人,自然就会知道怎样更好。别去误解别人,这样推广出去,世界也就更和平。到时候就算没人了解自己,也不是没关系吗?

Jeff said.
How often we express our thought aggressive? How often we so worry others don't know our thought? We afraid others not giving us time, afraid time not giving us chance, afraid we lose our life when we lose the chance. But do we success in our life? More, do this world become peaceful when everyone only wants to express their thought?
Don't rush, slow please. Listen more, observe more to know others deeply, then you will find out which is better for everyone. Don't misunderstand others, if everyone does like this then the world will be peace. So does it really matter when others don't understand me?

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2 comments:

LION GIRL said...

Yeah! Confucious is back!
To me, it takes 2 hands to clap and 2 people to have conversation. If both parties have a good time in the company of each other, that would be good conversation ~ listening, understanding n expressing thoughts.
So, it does matter that others understand me as I need to understand them....
Cheers!

Jeff Tan said...

LG: thanks for ur comment. Hope I didn't let you wait for too long .

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